husband vent......

does anyone else's husband not want to do anything unless it's their idea?! here's an example.... We were supposed to have maternity pictures taken at 5:30... He didn't get ready to walk out the door until 6:00.. so, we were late. same thing with lunch plans with my mom last week... He called out of work the day I had plans with her, so I invited him to go. He said yes at first, and then decided to stay in the bed until after I left..... i asked him if we could go to the pumpkin patch this year, and he told me that me & our baby can go, that he probably wont......... but God forbid that I even think twice about being late or saying no to anything he asks to do! please give me advice, ladies...