What should I do??

Question

Today my MIL sent a message to my hubby, he was asleep so I decided to respond to her. I then saw another message from my BIL's sister. We've known this girl for about a 1 year. She texted hubby at 11pm on Monday asking if he wanted to go get a drink. Hubby never responded and he was home from work like 15 after he got that text. I've always had a feeling she had a thing for him but I've dismissed it thinking it was just my hormones or something, but today when I saw that message it confirmed it for me. I'm just lost at what I should do. Should I talk to brother in law and ask him to tell his sister to have some respect? Should I ask hubby to put that girl in check? Or should I myself ask her to leave him alone? I just don't want my hormones and emotions to blind me and do something I shouldn't do. Any advice please
BIL is married to my sister 
He is not related to my husband

Answer

I would ask your husband what he thinks. Don't freak out and accuse him of anything. If he didn't reply, he obviously isn't interested. If it made him uncomfortable, I definitely think he should talk to his brother.

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I'd do all three. I'll politely tell her that you saw and that it isn't appropriate for her to be texting your husband asking him out. I'd talk to your husband and see what he felt about it and then I'd tell your bil what happened.  Be polite about it so nobody gets mad but yea, that's what I would do.

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I'm confused your brother in law's sister as in your husband's brother and sister?

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Do nothing. Clearly he didn't respond to her so if he feels it becomes a problem it's on him to address it. If he knows you read through his texts then just ask him about that girl

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This is a non-issue since he ignored the text. Don't make yourself look insecure by turning it into a Thing.

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I'd probably talk to your hubby first, then see what he thinks.. then talk to your brother in law about her.

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