Mother told my brother I was pregnant and he sent me this

He also opened my post 😂 So disrespectful. Backstory: I'm 19 and 9 weeks pregnant and I begged my mum not to tell anyone I was pregnant, let me do it when I'm ready and she went behind my back and told her husband and both my brothers. None of them have discussed my situation with me yet feel they're entitled to shove their opinions down my throat. Now, my baby is born in mid April. My exams will be June. My course is made up of 60% course work, 40% exams. By April, all coursework will be done, I'll just need someone to look after the baby for a couple hours when I do my exams in June. Then, I either plan to take a year out or continue but take my baby to the on campus nursery after my summer break. We will be living in a house we will be renting off my partner's parents. My partner has a full time job and I'm only planning to work until I get too far along (maybe til Jan or Feb) for some extra money. Felt the need to explain myself to show I'm not being as deluded as my brother says I am. I can see he cares but personally I found it to be a disgusting/disrespectful message. I don't know what to do about this, should I ignore him?

UPDATE:

He just told me I should self abort my baby with a coat hanger. I feel physically sick.