Am I paranoid?

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Found out my Husband has been meeting his ex-colleague for lunch. He messages her "hi sexy 😘" almost every morning. He also sends sex jokes to her - videos and texts of generic sex jokes. Am I paranoid/psychotic for overreacting to this? I wasn't stalking his phone- happened to see one message and I decided to see the chat history.

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Lunch... not maybe a big deal, jokes cool whatever, but calling another woman sexy HELL NO!

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No, you're definitely not paranoid. He is CLEARLY crossing the line.

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I agree with the other girl, going out to lunch with a friend is fine. Calling said friend "sexy" is not fine. I have lots of male friends and I would never allow any of them to call me that ever. Have a word with your man. You have a right to be upset and paranoid about this issue.

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Why would he text anyone every morning let again another women

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I don’t think you’re being paranoid at all... I would’ve flipped shit. I could handle lunch. I could even handle joking but I’ll be damned if my husband is sending another woman “good morning sexy” texts. NO SIR. FUCK. THAT. Oh man this makes my blood boil.

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Ummmm..... that's totally unacceptable

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Whoa! That is NOT OK! 
To text someone (other than his wife) "hey sexy" is just so wrong I don't even have the words. He's crossing the line by saying it, she's crossing the line by allowing it.
You need to have a serious talk with him because that is just not normal behaviour.

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Absolutely not!

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all of it,is wrong,lunch and all..

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Ew wtf he's disgusting...

Am I paranoid?

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