It is sooo hard not to feel helpless when you don't know what your newborn wants. Being a newborn is one thing and adding on top of that him being a premie, it is sooo frustrating. I try to feed him and he will latch for a good hr and a half then need more even after that. Which is fine, I will always make sure he eats enough.. but knowing he isn't getting enough just yet is killing me because I think he eats enough just from feeding for over an hr. 😢