ANSWER ME THIS

Why is it that women (as well as men ) are accused of being insecure when they *suspect* their partner may be cheating? The most common thing I hear is "why are you with that person if you can't trust them?" Okay, here's the thing. No one EXPECTS their partner to cheat. Everyone wants to believe they'll never be in an unfaithful relationship. Trust is hard to come by these days. When people get married, they put all their trust into that person; however, does that always stop people from cheating? NO. You can trust a person 110%, you can pretend like you really KNOW that person all you want, but they're still their own person with a conscious of their own; they still have the ability to cheat, whether they act like it or not. Better to be cautious then to put all your trust into someone and be betrayed: it may leave you feeling naive. It's just a sad subject. By why do so many people get angry at others and accuse them of being insecure when they *suspect* a partner of cheating?