Hi All, 👋🏼

So I’m really struggling. I’m seeing this guy and he’s incredibly sweet. We get along so well and we had sex for the first time on Saturday. I previously let him know I liked being on top, so he asked if I wanted to start that way and when I got on top of him and started to fumble my way around in the dark, I realized I was in over my head. He’s much bigger than I’ve ever been with before and, despite how wet I was, it still took about a minute to get him all the way in. I assume lube is a good way to start, but any other suggestions on how to make it easier? Also, any bj tips would be greatly appreciated as well. I’m slightly overwhelmed...

Thanks!