In laws🙄

Trilla • Dark and twisty👩🏼‍⚕️

My husband and I have been married for 5 years and a few months after we got married my in laws moved to La so we only saw them 2 or 3 times a year. About 2 years ago my father in law got a job in the state we live in so once a month he comes and stays for a week to work and then visit with us. My mother in law has started coming too and that's where it gets over bearing😳 The do stay in a hotel when they are up here but my husband picks up his mom every morning to come visit with us before he goes to work and then she is here all day on his two days off. She is a therapist which makes things more difficult because she thinks she knows it all. I could tell stories but then this post would ever end. She likes to ask prying question mostly about how we are doing financially. My husband has an amazing job and makes good money now but will make amazing money as he moves up each year. I problem is that for a whole week out of the month every minute my husband has free is spend running his mom places and entertaining her at our house. We have like zero time to ourselves during this week. It wouldn't be so bad if it wasn't for a whole week each month. Plus I hate all the prying questions and the fact that they always let us know what they think of our life choices. We bought a house last year and they told us it wasn't a good time to buy which was a lie, we ended up getting a great deal on our house because we bought before the market boomed in our area. My husband has been waiting for his work to do a certification class he need for his job instead of having to pay and take time off work to do it on his own time and my father in law told him it wasn't going to happen and that he would have to pay for the class himself which he had no way of knowing anyway. My husband's work ended up doing the class after all so it was worth the wait. My in laws are now talking about getting a condo right by us so I'm kinda stressing that for the rest of my life I'm going to have to spend a week getting treated like a child and listen to their opinions on our life. So if anyone has had any experiences like this I would love to hear how you handled it. I really want to set some blundered but I don't know how to do it without seeming mean. My husband doesn't see a problem with it but it just hard to not get anytime to ourselves for a week. Does anyone have any advice?