For trying to conceive at my weight (5’6, 242 lbs). My husband keeps saying that he feels like we shouldn’t be trying because we can’t even get our own eating habits under control, which makes him question the types of parents we’ll be. I know he has a point, because I’ve thought the same thing. We’re still trying (September is month 7)... but I can’t help feeling a little selfish, like I’m risking an unhealthy pregnancy just because I want to be a mom so bad...