First time

Okay so last week my boyfriend and I lost our virginity to each other (we’ve been dating for 5 months) it hurt at first and after a while it was fine but the weird part was I didn’t really feel anything “good” about the experience. Is this normal for the first time? We’ve done other stuff and I’ve gotten stimulation from those things but sex just doesn’t do it for me? And I always hear girls talk about good sex feels so I’m starting to think we’re doing it wrong? Please comment advice