Cup troubles

Katelin

I recently bought a Ruby cup. I need a offering cup that's not as hard as the diva because it causes me to have to go to the bathroom constantly and cramp worse on my worst day. My ruby cup cake but it is very soft and I can not figure out how to get it to pop open and stay open. It's like my vagina is crushing it. Am I doomed to deal with the bathroom and cramping worse?