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Relationship Advise Please!!!
My boyfriend and i have been together for 5 months now. I have 2 children from a previous abusive relationship. I have ptsd, and a few other mental problems. I have always been strong and independent. Well, i wasnt planning on being in a relationship, or jumping into anyt ing fast. It just happened. He was a druggie, and drank every day. Lived at his parents, no job. He stopped drugs, got a job, still has no car. So he relies on me to drop him off and pick him up. Which takes 2 hours out of my day to do with the kids. The relationship was okay until we moved in together 2 weeks ago. He is extremely immature, says random shit, acts like a damn 12 year old. Its gotten to the point where i just lose it. I have a few guy friends i grew up with, he calls it cheating if i talk to them. I told him in the beginning, i dont like you drinking. His friends are a horrible influence. But yet he goes to hang out with them, and comes back fucked up. He has goals, he knows what he needs to do to get his life in order. He seems like hes all talk. Shows up to work late, still drinks, is a complete slob. Cant do dishes, or help me with dinner, sometimes he doesnt even want to eat it! He is on his phone 24/7! He is on facebook all day, all day at work, all night.. its ridiculous!!! I work too so its a bit much to juggle it all. Everytime i try to talk with him, to explain why i am upset by certain things. We argue. Or he cries.. like someone died. Because i am losing love for him.. I just feel stuck and im not sure what to do or how to cope. I told him he needs to help with the bills, its only fair. All he talks about doing is going on these trips.. like what!? You cant even enjoy a damn day with me at home!!!