Miscarriage today at 5 weeks

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Jade

I'm 23 and I've just miscarried at 5 weeks with what would have been my first child. The heartbreak I'm feeling is indescribable. I can't help but think that's it. I've always had an inexplicable fear that I'll never be able to have children and this miscarriage is confirming my biggest most ultimate fear. I'm absolutely broken. How can I even trust my body again? I'm spiralling into a pit of despair and I don't know what to do

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Ir

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Growing up I had very irregular periods and was scared of never having kids. When I was 25 I had a miscarriage but got pregnant three months later. He's now one and a half! I had another miscarriage three months ago and I think I'm pregnant again. If this is how my body is able to carry a baby, by having miscarriages first, I'll take it. That's why they call them rainbow babies! You get a rainbow after the storm :) don't lose hope, your body is trying!

SH

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One in four women miscarry. And some how I’ve been that one twice. There is always something that can be done to help your body carry your baby. Done loose hope just yet😘 xoxo

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They say 40-50% all of all conceptions are miscarried and most of them are really early (sometimes before you know you are pregnant). Trust me, I know the feeling and how scary it is but it's completely normal. Most women will have one at some point in their life. Know it was nothing you did, there was most likely a chromosomal abnormality which would make the baby not viable, and this is the body's way of recognizing it. Most women go onto carrying full term in the future. Know it's common and you will be a momma one day. Sending you love and luck. Take your time to grief but don't loose hope. 💕

Ho

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So you bled for how long? And it was a lot?! I’m so happy you’re pregnant!

Ja

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Ladies just want to update you all. I went back to the EPU and they did more tests and I got a call from them tonight after they got my blood results back and they said my HCG has doubled after literally telling me that I've 'more than likely miscarried'. Now me and my other half are in a total state of shock and we daren't be happy because we were coming to terms with losing our baby. After all the blood loss I was absolutely convinced. Although I was never in any pain but I know it can still happen without pain. But now we don't know what to feel! They said I've got to go back for another scan on Friday so that's nearly another week of prolonged torture! I don't know how to handle this :(

Ja

Jade • May 11, 2018
Hi I’m so sorry I’ve only just seen this, I kinda avoided all social media for a while. The good news is I went on to have a healthy pregnancy, I’m now 36 weeks! I hope all is well for you too x

Je

Jess • Jan 10, 2018
Can I ask what happened after all this for you as I’m in the same situation now 😞