I've been in a relationship with someone who apparently doesn't know ho to be in a relationship. Ive been there thought the thick and thin with this man but it doesn't mean anything to him. At this moment I'm sitting in hotel room with someone I thought cared and loved me, and I tried to plan this nice weekend with him which he never does for me because apparently I'm supposed to do it. But he all of a sudden started talking down to me and when I stood up for myself he decided to punch me twice in my chest and socked me straight in my ear.No it swollen and I'm bleeding straight from my ear. violence is for the WEAK! If a man ever put his hands on you trust and believe he doesn't love you. love doesn't hurt.