Okay so Brady really wants to adopt later on when things have settled down and I think it would be great so we are looking into stuff now (not really planning anything per say) and I think it would be cool to adopt from a Spanish speaking country if we do because I would know more about it and I am learning Spanish. My thing is, I want to wait like at least a year or two and I want to be married and stable with a job and stuff and he wants to jump the gun on this one. It stresses me out and he doesn't understand that no matter how much I tell him about it.