**UPDATE (the details)

So the story is that my husband and I made this decision after trying to conceive for 3 long years with no answers to why nothing has worked even after too many test to count. No doctor has been able give us an answer. The closest we have gotten to our dream of having a child of our own was an early miscarriage last year that really tore us apart since the miscarriage is how we found out we were expecting in the first place. My husband and I have his two sons who are 4 and 6 whom he has full custody of. I’m their stay-at-home-(step)mom and they’re my world already, but I have always wanted a child of my own and my husband wants the same just as much. I’ve always felt like I needed to make a change in the world and I believe that between being a mother figure my stepsons needed in their lives and adopting another child who needs a home we’ll be making the change we are meant to.❤️❤️ We set up a go fund me to help with the cost, if anyone would like the link please let me know and I’ll post it.