orgasms? never heard of her

so i don’t think i’ve ever experienced an orgasm. i’ve never had sex, but i’ve masturbated a lot, mainly rubbing my clit (i don’t feel pleasure when i penetrate myself). i reach a point where it feels good and i reach a point where can’t do anymore, but i’m not feeling that ‘tide of pleasure’ everyone is talking about, or feel like a true orgasm. thoughts or tips?