Why won’t she let him see his daughter?

Question

Recently, it has been a “reality show” in my life, ever since my boyfriend and I got together she has been keeping him away from his child, threatening to take her to a different state, and putting him on child support. (Never been married) The only thing he wants is to be a father, he has been there since finding out she was pregnant till she got up and left him with their daughter. His child’s mother keeps using their daughter against him... I feel like this is happening because he moved on..

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First, there is nothing wrong with paying child support

Second, until he takes her to court or has mediation for visitation or living arrangements, he’s SOL.

Her motives aren’t really important and may or may not be justified. If he wants guaranteed time, they need it in writing.

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She’s probably not too happy he’s moved on...maybe she still has ‘feelings’ for him. Don’t let him put you before his child though that will make her more angry. Trust me. Always put his child first. Same thing happened to me a long time ago. I had to leave that relationship because he was trying to balance me and his daughter and I could tell it was killing him not being able to see her as much.

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One thing is almost 100% certain. She is doing this because he has moved on. 
Even though she was the one to leave, I can almost guarantee she is having an array of emotions toward the fact that he is truly ‘gone’ now and this is her only way to hurt him for that. 
He needs to pay child support if he isn’t with her, regardless of why. He has an obligation to support and provide for the child he helped create. 
They need to set a date for mediation to put into writing the conditions of custody between them. If she doesn’t follow that, next is court. She has to allow their child to see her father. The only way she can get out of that is if he has been abusive or poses a direct threat to her or the child. So, he needs to be proactive before the situation gets out of hand and organise something to be put into writing. 
As for you, don’t blame yourself for the way she is acting. Once she realises that you aren’t going anywhere and her child can’t be used as a pawn in a game, everything will settle down. 
Hold your ground babe!

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She’s absolutely doing it because she’s bitter that he’s moved on. My husbands ex has kept his daughter from him ever since him and I started dating. Even demanding that he leave me otherwise she won’t let him see her. When he refused to leave me and we got married she moved across the country and changed her phone #. He hasn’t seen her for several years and it breaks his heart. I hate women like this. He needs to take her to court to establish custody so she can’t do this.

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I agree with one of the e previous comments until he takes her to court he has didlly squat in regards to a voice. my fiance's ex does the same thing. it sucks and it's horrible but unfortunately some people are like that and the only way to fix it is legal action. good luck hun.

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Is he on the birth certificate? It's probably her protecting her child from you because you're gunna be a "threat"! He has to pay child support... as it's his duty to help her out. But she can turn round the say that she doesn't want him in her daughters life if she has some reasons etc.

Why won’t she let him see his daughter?

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