Update on why: He just communicates like trash. He's so nonchalant about everything in life, he doesn't know how to be a team player.. yes, there's way worse shit happening in other marriages, but he real life needs to grow up and be here for me mentally and emotionally. Also, he does sneaky shit for no reason... and when the truth is unveiled it's like WHY ARE YOU SO SNEAKY FOR NO REASON ? I may sound like an asshole, but I'm seriously such a good wife to him, im just fed up at the moment. And yes I hope counseling works too!