Low sex drive, but porn!?

Ok so for almost 4 years my “friend” and I have been intimate. We were typically being intimate with each other no less then once a week a few months ago.

He has always said I have a higher drive then him, he doesn’t think about it as much as me..... oh he has a low sex drive.... blah blah every excuse you can think of.

Well it’s official been almost a month since we were intimate, and I just realized by complete mistake that he’s getting on pornhub at least once a day. Looks like typically in the morning when he’s “taking his morning crap”

So now I’m beginning to feel like it’s me and I’m tired of having to basically beg for him to sleep with me. I’ve asked him straight forward is it me. If it is just tell me and I’ll move to someone else. (We aren’t technically dating.... long story)

So I guess my question is, how many of you go through the same thing? Is it really the female’s fault or could he really just have a low sex drive?