New TTC

My boo & I have been together for 4 years , living together for 1 . We have been through a lot . I was on depo for about 1 year & a half , supposed to get my shot on the 28th . Babe said nah don't get it . (YAY) . They made me wait over a month before i could go back for it (thank you Jesus) , so right now I am cramping pretty bad , verrrryyyy light spotting (if you call it that) & honestly if it makes any sense I'm not bleeding at all . Only very light blood when I wipe . I know I need this old lining out before we try , but anyone else know how to make this bitch start pouring like it used too ? I'm tired of the nightly cramps , & im allergic to pads . I haven't used tampons in soooo long I'm just ready to put the pad on for a few days (yes I know to change it... duh) & get it over with . After that we are going to start trying , but we are going to have fun with it . I'm not really going to try to study the stars or anything , & im not buying anything to tell me when I'm ovulating or Basal body temp thing . Hell honestly idk what cervical mucus is or how to tell the difference in between it . My vagina has discharge & that's all I know . Lol . Can you tell I'm new 😂😂

-Edit : he has a cancerous tumor in his right nasal cavity pushing on his brain & his eye . Two days after I posted this he had a seizure . So right now we are on hold ...