So afraid

My husband and I have been trying for a year and a half and it’s been an uphill battle. We’ve had him tested and he is just fine and his sperm is above normal. I on the other hand am struggling to create eggs and we are on our second round of letrozole. My period is to start Wednesday and of course my ob is out of town until Wednesday to even tell us if we ovulated ( had blood work down 2 weeks ago come Wednesday). I’m just so afraid to test, at 9 dpo I had a little blood after my husband and I had sex but it was the third time in 30 hours because he’s been gone for a week (left right after my fertile week) so I stacked it up to me being sensitive since we’ve done it so much. I’m just afraid to test because I’m afraid the doctor will call me back and say we didn’t ovulate and I took a test for nothing yet I’ve been having twinging pains on both sides of my pelvic areas on the insides and my husband said the next day when we were going at it that my boobs looked a little bigger and they’ve been hurting terribly lately a bra hurts and makes them even more sensitive. I just need some encouragement on if I should test or not and when I should test. Thanks