sex life is dead

we used to have sex several times a week now I am lucky for once or twice a MONTH... we've been together since February and I love him and I understand he is under a lot of stress at work and it's supposedly creating performance issues but for the love of all things, I NEED SEX!!!!!!! What should I do? what would you do? should I be mad? I stopped talking about it after he said I brought it up daily (yeah I did because I track that stuff on this app and I see how not often I am getting some and I am not ok with it!). but I finally burst into tears and just unloaded when we were talking on the phone at night a few days ago and I just unleashed a couple months worth of stress. I guess he didn't realize because he is now taking steps to try and relieve some stress at work and stuff but I'm over here like it took me going postal (think psychotic angry ugly crying) to reach him? I need advice please!!!!!!!!! (btw I have given him several bjs recently so I can attest that the equipment works at least in those situations)

what can I do? should I do? what would you do? HHHEEELLLPPP!!!!