Is it normal I feel this way?

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I’m 20 and I always felt like relationships are useless. I’m much better single, I have other things I have to concentrate on and prioritise apart from some guy that will probably end up leaving at some point anyway. I just feel like there’s no point 🤷🏻‍♀️ I couldn’t careless if I stay single for the rest of my life, children is something that I don’t even wanna think of. I think relationships are too much stress, investment, time consuming and all that and I can’t be bothered with that drama. 
In addition, most couples annoy me as well. Most of them are cringey as imo and no I’m not jealous, it just irritates me saying cringey texts with hearts and kiss emojis all over social media. Is it normal?

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Honestly, I wish I had your mentality at 20!

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I know plenty of people who would rather be single!

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totally normal and totally okay ! As you get older , your perspective on things may or may not change . but this is not a bad thing , it might even make you ahead of the game among your age group 😉 nothing wrong with taking care of you first , self love is most important 💛

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I think this is normal if you haven't found the right person. I knew my husband was the right person for me because he made me a better person, helped me improve and inspired me. He is smarter than me in some ways and I'm smarter than him in some ways. Our personalities and skills compleme t each other and we make each other better people. I think when you find that, you might change your mind. But also, at your age, its hard to know what a relationship is really like because people your age don't have as much experience in relationships. Being in a relationship is a skill that improves over time.

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You shouldn't feel weird feeling this way! Many people "love" differently and live differently. Not everyone desires being in a traditional monogamous relationship and some don't want a relationship at all. You'll find what works for you

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I was single from 20-26, I felt just like you did, at 26 I met my wife, we have been together 8years are married and are ttc. I have friends that start new relationships before ending their current one just because they can’t be alone. I must say I really knew who I was and was solid financially and emotionally when I met my wife. I think if I spent those years hunting down relationships I wouldn’t be so secure in myself.

Is it normal I feel this way?

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