Help!!

So this guy I'm into is a Virgin, we are both 18 btw, but I'm not. We are really good friends and he's a super sensitive emotionally attached guy but he's been with one other person and didn't do anything. Am I wrong to want to take things slow even if he doesn't? Should I take the lead or let him, even though he doesn't know what to do? Do guy get as attached as girls over their first time or?