Background:

My husband was in the military and got out December 2016, and since then didn’t have a job or try to get one, didn’t help with the girls or even help clean the house as I worked.

Also before my girls were born I found out he was having sex with me while I slept and I couldn’t even bring myself to say anything because of my past history of being raped I would just freeze, plus I thought he would respect me more.

Anyway,

A few months ago when I found out I was pregnant with our third child, my husband decided he couldn’t do it anymore and left. Well a few months ago he came back to us and said he wanted us to be a family. Well he has got a job after not having one for a long time and helps with the girls more than before, but there is something else that is bothering

I am currently pregnant with our third and he and I have been trying to work on our marriage, but a few days ago I found out he is going doing me and all while I’m sleeping one again. He even goes out of the way to snap pictures of my private areas on his phone. It’s hard to have sex with him or even think about it because of what has been done and sometimes even to kiss him because of everything. I love him and I want to make this work, but not if he isn’t going to stick to his word. He knows How I feel about it because we spoken about it on numerous occasions, so I don’t understand why he is still doing it. I’m just at a loss for words. Even pissed.

Being 26 weeks along with our Son and was told I can’t have sex or anything up there because of my preterm labor issues and he just doesn’t seem like he cares. Also when he is just sitting here with me he always has his hands right next to my vagina or when he comes to wake me up from a nap or whatever he is always just touching my ass. Idk if I’m over reacting, but I don’t know what to do anymore.