how did you find out they cheated?

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those that got cheated on, how did you find out? i have a strong feeling my SO is cheating on me, i cant snoop at all cause hes secretive w his phone, and its fingerprinted.

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Girl, I had passwords to the phone (given to me) and he still cheated 🙄🙄anyway Going thru phones is really pointless because if a person is doing something and wants to hide it, all they have to do is erase it. 
Although people will tell you it’s an invasion of privacy (it kind of is).
Or they’ll be like 
If you need to go thru his phone u don’t need to be with him there’s no trust, blah, blah
If you need visual proof to leave , I say wait till he’s asleep and use his fingerprint to unlock the phone lol 😂😂
Just be careful when you go looking for stuff you never know what you’ll find.

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Honestly, Talk to him. Be straight up. Tell him you think he's cheating, give all of your reasons why you think so. And ask him if you can see his phone. If he says no its likely hes hiding something.

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I was told by my exhusbands brother that he was cheating. I had had a gut feeling for a long time asked him many times he said no I would never do that blah blah blah & like 3 months later his brother told me. It was told to me on a night when they went out drinking I was home 4 months pregnant & they came home at 3am then all of a sudden my car was leaving & I heard his brothers car start up so I walked outside & asked what was going on. At first he wouldn't tell me & I said look I'm carrying your niece I think I need to know what's going on he finally came inside & told me everything. My piece of shit ex came walking in half drunk at 6am I asked him & he finally admitted it. But honestly what gave me the gut feeling was him coming home from work always talking about one girl never anyone else.

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The only boyfriend that cheated on me was a little careless. The first time he left his Facebook account opened in my laptop. 
The second time we were at a bar with a group of friends and he went outside with one f his friends to get something from the car and left his phone with me that had no password. They were taking sooo long so i open the phone to text his friend to see if everything was okay and there it was all the text messages between him and this girl that WAS SITTING RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME. He would go over to her house and fuck once he dropped me off at my place(we used to go out almost everyday)
And the 3rd time his mom was out of the country and she left me in charge because he was useless and I was working in the computer and his Facebook was opened and he was still texting her and seeing her.

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if you feel he's cheating then why are you still with him? sorry that's dumb and I know it is bc I've been there and believed lies over my gut

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I saw his facebook messages. I go on his laptop and fb often to check his works rota. We don't hide anything from each other we both have access to everything. Recognised the name in his messages so snooped. It was only a one off drunk kiss and nudes from her tho. Wasn't an ongoing thing. Found the messages a couple days after it happened. I had a weird feeling from that night in the back of my mind I think that's why I snooped. I knew something had happened.

how did you find out they cheated?

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