Just need to vent I guess.
So I'm 18 weeks pregnant today with our second baby. I just found out yesterday that my younger brother who is 21 may be expecting a child. He met this girl 2 months ago and they've been living together for over a month. He gave her his virginity and says he loves her. Now they are pretty sure she is pregnant. She is 22 or 23 I think. My brother seems really happy. I'm just stressed because she doesn't have a job or a car and moved in with him because she was homeless and had no where to go. She seems nice enough but neither one of them are mentally or financially ready for a child. If they are pregnant of course me and the rest of my family will help in any way we can because we love my brother and want to see him happy but it's gonna be so hard for them. She is taking a test this morning to be sure. So we will find out pretty soon hopefully. She doesn't want to talk to her family about it because she is scared they will disown her which I kinda believe because what type of family moves out of state and leaves their kid behind with no car or job or place to stay. I couldn't sleep all last night and my mom is very stressed about it as well. We just want the best for my brother and don't want to see him struggle. My mom is worried that since we haven't known this girl very long that if she is pregnant she will move to Florida with her family and take my brothers kid with her. Which would devastate him. My brother seems to be doing okay with it. He told her that they would get through it together. I dropped off two first response pregnancy tests to him this morning so they wouldn't use cheap ones or blue dye. I'm just very nervous and want to know one way or another. If they are we will all be happy and love that baby but she needs to get a job and help pay bills cause my mom has been paying half my brothers bills since his actual roommate moved out and bailed on the bills he owed for. Anyway if you read through this thank you amd I will try to update later today when we find out.
Update: we are still waiting to find out. She wants to wait a few more days to test to see if her period comes.
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