COMMUNICATION

Guuuyyys!!

Communicate with your partners for god’s sake! 😒🙈 Like for real, how hard is it? If you’re not into something he’s doing sexually, flat out say “hey babe, I’m really not feeling that”, if you want him to do something say “hey babe, we should try this” or “I really liked when you did this”, if you’re uncomfortable tell him!! If he’s being disrespectful, don’t ignore the problem! Speak up for yourself! Sorry, I’m just so tired of seeing all of these posts asking for advice when they could all be avoided if you guys actually talked to each other about your feelings and/or opinions or needs/wants. Relationships don’t have to be challenging. You just have to be a team. If you’ve tried communicating and it’s just not working, try couples therapy or end it. Especially if you’re young, realize, there are plenty of people out there. You don’t have to stay with who you’re with and try to fix things just because it’s convenient or comfortable. Don’t settle, find your voice, love yourself and know what you want and need!