Birthday to close together!?!

Ok my SO thinks I’m crazy. I don’t want to have our kids have bdays to close together and I really don’t want them to share bdays with other close family members. Financially i want them to be a bit apart to help us give our kids great bdays and holidays it would also help out my side of the family as well- we like to spoil each other’s kids. We were hoping this month we would be pregnant but unfortunately AF showed up yesterday and I was heartbroken. So I want to wait now til February on to try again to keeps the due date away from others and holidays!

Please tell me I’m not alone in this.