My MIL rant

Y'all bear with me I just got to get it off my chest. Just cried in the car to hubby so I'm hoping he talks to them. We are moving soon saving for a house. But my MIL is so rude to me and we have a toddler she tries to do everything and suggest everything for her even her clothes and foods. We do all we can for our daughter she never goes without and is so happy but she is in daycare because I am a student (Nursing). My MIL was against that, she is against everything I suggest like baby mommy and me classes. I'm just so tired I don't say anything because when I do she cries yells and says poor me and I don't want to hear it. I am so grateful but im her mom let me be her mom and you be her grandma.