My boyfriend and I have been sexually active for a while. A little bit of a back story though. We are both heavier set people who don’t have a ton of experience before now. We’ve each only been with one other person and for him it’s been about 4 years since his last girlfriend. When we have sex he goes soft and then gets hard again and that cycle repeats but he never cums. Now we’ve only used a condom once before and he never had that problem. He finished just fine although it takes him a while which is normal. But without a condom he never finishes. He hates condoms so it’s not that he’d rather use one plus we are both ready for kids so we decided we weren’t trying to prevent it anymore. I guess my question is has anyone else experienced anything like this and how did y’all overcome it?? Because honestly it’s starting to upset me. He swears it’s nothing I do but I just can’t handle it. Any advice or encouragement or something would be great. Thank you!