WARNING: THIS IS LONG. This isn't a article to judge. This isn't a article to question any one. But to help. I suffer from depression and bipolar. some days are worse than others. I can go months perfectly fine, then something small can set me off and I get down in out. I feel like I'm constantly doing everything wrong. my partner struggles to understand where I'm coming from and thinks he isn't doing everything right. when he is constantly reassured that he is doing the best he can and I appreciate him for everything he does. we struggle because I am very insecure, and he feels like I'm constantly bitching. we have drifted apart and I honestly don't know how to better our relationship. we sleep in the same bed, but on different edges with our backs turned. we get home from work and go to different rooms. when I try to talk it is constantly turning into a argument. I know we love each other so much. I'm just struggling so hard and don't know how to escape this dark hole and get the living relationship back that I use to have. so I guess what I am asking is, when you're relationship feels like it's in doubt, what are so stops you take ladies to help bring it back together. how do you cope?