A bloke at work laughed and called my man a 'jaffa' (meaning infertile, shooting blanks) because we were chatting and I said we'd been trying a while for out first baby. I thought that was a really shitty thing to.say and make fun of the situation. If he was around other men maybe it'd have been funny but not around the person that's been worried about not being able to have a baby! Rude.