PCOS general questions

Hi ladies I am an overweight lady with PCOS and i have asked for help from the doctors and they keep telling me the same thing that I need to lose weight and my BMI has to be under 30 before they give me any treatment which I am in the process of doing I have lost 10lb so far but is there any other delicious plus size ladies out there that been given help and their BMI is still over 30 it's been 6 years nearly 7 that me and my husband have been TTC and I am beginning to lose hope my confidence is shot and I am completely lost so if there is any ladies out there willing to give me some advice please send it my way thank you