Seriously? 🙄

My mom made a mean joke about me and I tried really hard not to cry and to just take it lightly, but I just finished my period and I still feel sensitive. So, I started quietly crying to myself and tried not to let her see, but then she started getting mad at me and yelled at me for crying. Like how are you gonna hurt my feelings and then yell at me for reacting??? 🙄

UPDATE: context was, I recently lost my job and I’ve been trying to stop hating myself for it, but I still do even though it wasn’t my fault (the company was down sizing). Before I got this job, I started a masters program online and had to pay for it using her credit card because my debit card had fraud on it. I told her this and she was fine with it. I realized that I couldn’t take this online course on June 10th and emailed my advisor the same day. She said I could drop the course by June 14th and still get 75% of the money back, so I did, but then the university ended up charging my mom the whole amount of money. Since this has happened, I’ve been telling her over and over again how bad I feel and I told her I would pay her back, but she always says I don’t have to. Basically, we’ve been in a dispute with the credit card company since the end of June. They sent us a dispute form. I had the idea of printing out the emails I had between my advisor and me as proof that I dropped the course on time. MEANWHILE: I’ve been reminding my mom to send the dispute form along with the emails into the credit card company so she wouldn’t get charged a late fee. I got laid off about 2 weeks ago, and I have been reminding her since before that (when I still had my job) to send it in. She wanted to do it herself before anyone asks me why I’m not the one who sent the form in. Also, she keeps our stamps in her purse. Well she finally sent the dispute form in on Monday. The company must not have received the dispute form yet, so they sent my mom a $30 late fee today. She turned to me, pointed her finger and said “this is your fault”. It just hurt because she KNOWS how bad I feel about the university charging her card and she KNOWS how bad I feel about not being able to pay her back since I lost my job. I know she knows because she’s the only person I have to talk to.