Am i wrong?

Question

My husband. And I are out right now at a bar and he went into the restroom and took along time. I knew what he was doing but didn’t say anything. But later I asked him what took him so long he said he was with poepel doing coke. We never get to go out, should I be mad? I used to do before but stopped for good. Should he be able to enjoy his night ?
Edit: we are not addicts at all. Neither is he. He only does it ever when we go out for the night. I don’t do it as we have a daughter now. So I stopped but all he does is work and be home. He never goes out

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As in the illegal drug? Never a good idea to do that.

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I mean I’ve done coke a few times, so I’m not one to judge, but I was in a relationship out with my wife doing it in a bathroom. I was a dumb, depressed freshman in college. Like was it offered to him and he was like so fucked up he said yes or was it like planned? Idk, like ya not the best choice, but he’s an adult. I personally didn’t get the hype about coke, but I just don’t have an addictive personality. Either way, definitely talk to him about it.

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Was it his coke or a strangers?

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I would be upset but that's because I left that part of my life way behind me years ago, and have made it clear to my husband how I feel and what I need from him. I think you have the right to be upset, but you should get clear on why. Is it because you are parents now and using drugs doesn't fit, or you think it's disrespectful for him to be gone in the bathroom so long, or what? Then communicate that. Personally I understand needing a break from life, but a person can have fun and relax without using drugs in the bathroom of a bar.

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