Orgasm

So me and the guy I've been talking to/seeing hooked up tonight. Not sex, but I sucked his dick like a pro 👌 and he fingered me. He couldn't get me to cum though. I feel so disappointed, not in him but in myself. It felt good and I was pretty close, but you know at a certain point it's just not gonna happen. Does this happen to any of you?? I feel really bad too because i don't want him to think he wasn't good/there's something wrong with me or that I wasn't into it. Any tips? Thanks in advance!