Are we being naive?

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This going to be long and probably have no point but I’m in love shhh
My boyfriend and I have been together since March, our 7th months was on the 20th. We turn 18 in December (he’s 10 days younger than me) and we’ve been living together since June. We never argue, his family loves me and is voluntarily taking the place of my absent biological family. We know how to cheer the other person up and he knows how to take care of me when I’m having a depression,anxiety, or bipolar episode, I know how to take care of him when he’s having an OCD attack.
We have plans for the future, we talk about everything, nothing is hidden and we’ve already named our future kids. He always says he’s going to propose before we’re 20 and I daydream about our wedding every night before falling asleep.
Basically, we both see spending the rest of our lives together. He’s my best friend and I’m his. I mean we spend everyday, all day together and are rarely apart for more than two hours, it’s hard to not want to spend your life with someone when you spend 24hrs a day with them. I’m just worried that because we’re so young and haven’t been together for years that we’re setting ourselves up for disaster. I mean we’ve both agreed that we’d always work things out and not just call it quicks but I don’t want to end up wasting my youth and then being alone with kids and an ex I once considered the love 
of my life. Are we getting ahead of ourselves? 
picture added cuz I think we’re cute

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It really depends on the relationship. I know a few couples that are high school sweethearts and dated from a young age. I think it can be difficult bc as you grow, you change somewhat and can want different things. I wouldn't say you're being naive, you're in love. Sometimes it works out and sometimes it doesn't. Sounds like you both have good heads on your shoulders and have a good relationship. Wishing you guys the best!

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I think you can just enjoy what’s happening in the present moment and not worry so much about the future. I think if you work on making now the best it can possibly be, you will be able to manifest all of that with him. What I suggest is.... I know you think it’s sweet and everything that you spend 24/7 together but The healthiest most successful relationships are ones where you each have separate lives as well as the one you have together. So make sure that you are not becoming codependent on him for your happiness, for socialization, for fun, and even for love. Make sure you have other sources of happiness outside of him. Make sure you have friends that you can still hang out with and talk to you and have fun with without him around. And make sure that you can find love in all corners of the world, I’m not talking about romantic love… I’m just talking about loving things and people outside of him, especially self love which is the most important love. Without that, it makes it hard for others to love you and for you to love them the right way. So just keep all of these things in mind, keep your relationship healthy and focus on now… And I think you have a good chance of staying together.

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I think you can talk about this stuff and enjoy each other. I wouldn’t be rushing down the aisle because the next few years are huge in terms of personal growth. If you are meant to be together, you still will be and you can go from there

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I don't think you are naive. I do know that I have had a situation where I had absolutely fell in love with my best friend and it seemed that he loved me. We told ourselves that we would be together forever.  My family who never likes anyone I date thought that I'd  be with him forever. But as soon as his mother told him to break it off, he broke it off. It has broken me every day since. He was my absolute best and closest friend and we went through everything. What I am trying to say is, be careful. Don't stop dreaming and don't stop giving him your all. I suggest that you get involved with school, hobbies, and other friends so that you will be prepared if the relationship fails. If you give yourself a depth and a life that isn't  just thinking of him there are places you can express yourself to others and go when things aren't all that good. I'm only twenty and I just figured that out. I'm not saying you lack depth either, I'm saying you remind me of myself. I have a feeling that your love is your world. I'm just saying make your world comprise of many different passions and if it fails you'll have someplace to heal. This seems beautiful and I know he'll encourage you to go for your dreams. Hope this kinda helped? :-)

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I think it depends honestly. There isn't a reason to be negative if you guys are so in love ❤️ I started dating my bf when I was 17 and I never thought we'd last. In 21 now and he's 22 . It wasn't easy but its great so far and I do think about the future and getting married just like you said you do 😂😇  Just take your time having kids lol

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