Emotional abuse in a relationship

Hi guys.

My boyfriend has recently been showing signs of emotional abuse.

I really do love him.

I told him that I was sexually abused when I was a child, and his response was "I've had to deal with this before. Victims."

He's so selfish emotionally and I give him my all and ell him through a lot and I have repeatedly tried to talk to him about me needing his support, but he doesn't seem to care. He believes he's giving me support

I have been told i may also have borderline personality disorder, this he knows about and responded similarly to when I told him about my abuse. I'm on medication for it though and I don't let it affect the relationship, rather I let it ruin myself as horrible as that sounds, it works for us.

I don't want to lose him but I also don't care because I know he will never love me

I'm not sure what to do. People around me tell me I'm way too good for him but I don't think I will ever find someone who will stay with me like he has stayed.

He's all I have left in my life, I can't lose him, but he's destroying the only parts of my soul I have left.

I'm getting counselling too, I just don't know what to do about this situation.

Any help if appreciated and constructive give critisism is also appreciated.