Stopping “trying”

For everyone who got their BFP when they stopped “ttc” systematically. Where you still aware of your fertile window, or did you just ignore everything completely? I have given up opks, temping,system spotting and bding like crazy.. but I find myself still aware of when my fertile window is.. wondering if that could subconsciously hinder chances. Even though I move gained the mentality of “if it’s not my month than so be it”.

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