late last month and again this month

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hi ladies, I got my copper IUD removed on Oct 16th. Then I ovulated the same week. In October, my period was late but came on 33rd day mark. My husband and I have been using the pull-out method ever since the IUD has been out. I was expecting my period on Nov 4th. But I am late again. My breasts are now swollen and sore. I get hot flashes. I have been extremely bloated for a week now. I have take 2 hpt in last 5 days, all negative. I am confused to what to do.