What would you do? *upset

Question

Hi ladies 
I split with my ex when I was pregnant, I walked away it just wasn't working out and the stress was too much to cope with. It was the best decision.
The babies here now he's a few months old. He hasn't seen the baby since he was born but it is going through the courts at the moment to arrange access. 
I have just found out he has been seeing someone else. After checking her social media (I know, I couldn't help myself) I found he has been seeing her immediately after we split, when I was still pregnant. That hurts a little. 
I saw that she had put a post up with her daughters name and my sons name written on a canvas and tagged his family in it.
I was fuming! Am I overreacting? 
How dare she indirectly post about my child on Facebook. This must mean she intends to be in my child's life? What, if anything, can I do about this? How would you ladies feel? x
Edit: The relationship can't be that serious as they've only been dating since about June. He's had a few relationships in the past none of them seem to last

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You can be upset,  but there's nothing you can do about it. If the father is in a serious relationship with this women, there's a possibility of marriage. When you seperate from the father of your child, there is always a chance of a step parent being involved.  I would look on the bright side,  at least  when he gets visitation,  your baby won't be around a bunch of fly by night women, who have no interest in the well being of your child.

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Being upset and/or jealous is normal. But there isn't anything you can or should do unless she is causing harm to your baby. I find it a little strange that she's doing all this when he hasn't even been a part of your child's life yet though. I would suggest speaking with a family counselor who can help you all learn how to coparent. I have been separated from my oldest son's father for about 4 years now. We both have significant others. I have a new baby and he is getting married next year. We get along wonderfully and I couldn't be happier that his fiancé is able to be a mother to my son when he is at their home. Try to be open minded but there is nothing wrong with working through all these new emotions.

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I would be livid, beyond livid actually. The audacity of people amazes me at times, smh. However, if the gf isn't unfit to be around your child there isn't a lot that you can do. You can bring it up in the courts & request that your ex spends time with his child alone until a certain period, especially since he hasn't been around like he should. I just don't know if that will go in your favor. In the future, stay off of fb it will hurt your feelings every time.

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You said it yourself, the relationship ending was your choice and the best one. Coming from the role of a stepmom (to a young child) who is very involved, sometimes it’s a positive to having a woman around especially with young children. As long as she treats him/her as her own with love 💕

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I'd also have those angry and jealous feelings also. It's a difficult situation. I do think it's better that she cares rather than the opposite though.

What would you do? *upset

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