My friend of many years has recently told me that he REALLY wants to have sex and its sure if he can continue to talk to me because of it. I dont know what to do with this now, I mean he has told me before that he wanted to do me but I always brushed it off like a joke or something since he would say when he was drunk. I think a conversation we has on our past relationships and sexual history is what has been fueling this (he is vanilla and a newbie while Im a little more kinky with experience) but i have spoken to him about these things before so im not sure why now it has become a problem. I dont know what to do i dont want to lose my friend but je doesnt seem like he will be able to get past these feelings.