Would you give her another chance?

She is not my sister, but she was?

I don't know how to explain this any other way.

We were in the same foster family from 8-15. We were really really close. So close that even though we didn't share a room, we would fall asleep in each other's floors because we'd stay up all night talking. im going to try to explain this situation as best as I can without making this incredibly long.

She had a drug problem and a compulsive lying problem. She's the kind of person who will make you believe you can trust her and then 5 minutes later she stabs you in the back. She can seem genuine, open up to you and make you feel close to her and then switch up in the instant she can gain something from it. She went as far as hiding her drug stash in my bedroom and then telling my mom she found my drug stash and didn't know what to do, when it was HER DRUGS. I was not even doing drugs.

She did things to hurt me emotionally over and over again. Broke my trust over and over again. Made up lies about me to get the spot light off of her when she messed up.

I'm going to emphasize that she is one of the most two faced, untrustworthy people I have ever came across in my entire life and if hurting you will benefit her in any way she will jump at the chance, even if she has to make something up off the top of her head to do so. She's caused a lot of issues for my family including public humiliation just from lies alone. Like, ending up on the news public humiliation.

She doesn't care who's head she has to step on to make herself seem above them. She literally cares for nobody but herself and her own interests.

The final time she did something to betray me I guess you could say, I knew it was coming. Because I knew her and knew what kind of person she was.

WAS?

I haven't talked to her in 6 years but I still know her family. The phrase "you're dead to me" is perfect. Literally forgot she existed until she got brought up.

Her older sister who saw her the same way I did has forgiven her and is in her life. She had a baby last year and apparently really pulled her life together. She tried contacting me one Christmas and all i sent back was "fuck off".

If you asked me how many nights I spent crying over my sister stabbing me in the back, I couldn't tell you. I lost count.

You can only step on someone so many times before they don't care about you anymore. But I am considering giving her another chance. Somewhere deep, deep down I wish that she could be in my life. I basically grew up with her. I wish she wasn't all of these things.

She looks put together and she's getting married and just celebrated her child's first birthday.

But I don't know. She would make a good con artist, plays any role well.