Why do I attract married men ?

It's not that I am after them or something, they just come to me! I just mind my own business as a single lady, hoping to get into a lasting relationship with a 'single guy' that would some day lead to marriage...just like any other single lady. I am independent and hard working, but I've never imagined myself getting involved with a married man...never! In fact I never get close to a man when I notice he is married/with family.

It has happened on several occasions, and during this last instance I asked this particular guy "Why does it always happen that I attract married men"? and he told me it's because I am independent, mature and hardworking; and he wondered why single men do not notice these qualities in me!

I keep telling them that they should know they are married, that having an extra marital affair will only worsen issues; that they should work it out with their wives, but they would hear none of that. I have now resorted to cutting off communication links with any married man who goes that direction (wanting a relationship with me), just to avoid any looming trouble/confrontations.

Is something wrong? I do not have any flirtatious character in me...I do not send out any signals whatsoever...I just treat all men with due respect and keep my distance accordingly!