Body shame by loved one or am i too sensitive?

So my fiance hates hair. So much that he shaves his back...chest..and arms (he's not even that hairy). Now, i am the type of woman to let hair grow. I have very sensitive skin and will brake out. I also have stopped taking my birthcontrol so I have gained weight, started getting acne and having ph balance issues causing a little bit of a strong vaginal smell (something that started with my first period at 13). I also eat A LOT! I have all my life. Im not even that big. Ive developed a little belly but that's really it. Im thick...built for lifting. My fiance has made comments about my hair being disgusting...the way i eat making him nauseous. Same with my vaginal smell. ( I shower twice a day..and use wet wipes EVERYTIME i use the restroom. im always cleaning down there. He says he has a heighten sense of smell due to breaking his nose so mayn times.) He has even used the sentence that you NEVER say to a woman "you let yourself go". he has also made a comment about me not wearing make-up as much like i use to (as if it was a bad thing...as if he misses it).