Holidays at my MIL’s

She lives in such a small apartment, it gets very stuffy in there. About 30 ppl will be there. My one year old is going to get frustrated so I’m not looking forward to it already. ( she hates being in crowded places ) she’s def not used to it lol. If you have 2 other places to go to in holidays how long would you be there for? Mil and FIL are divorced and we spend time with my fam as well. Keep in mind my daughter will start getting tired at 9pm and will throw fits, we can’t really have her sleep over there cause then if she gets woken up she won’t go back to sleep til late night 😩 I’m in a tuff spot, give me advice ladies.. I’m sorry if this isn’t on the right group!