I miscarried how do I move on from this ?

Question

So yesterday I found out that I miscarried our baby I was  9weeks . I feel like life has ripped me apart. How do I go from one day dreaming and making plans to all of sudden being ripped from all my dreams coming true on becoming a mother for the first time. I know everyone keeps telling me it's all Gods plan it's going to be ok. But in reality I am not mad at God I am just really sad that I was ripped from my baby. I was ripped from everything that I ever lived for . I know it may not be the end of the world but for me it feels like it. I know that later on I'll be able to conceive again I just don't know when I  will be ready . I'm i the only one to feel this way? Am I allowed to feel like I'm scared to continue to conceive and feel like something like this will happen again? Or who has had a miscarriage and was able to have a healthy pregnancy?

Answer

Also, one thing that made me feel better was buying something in honor of my angel. I bought a necklace with a wing and baby foot prints and I bought a bracelet with an infinity sign and a wing. Those things help me feel better because I am in a way carrying my lost child. My husband just told me he wanted to try again so hopefully it wont take us too long to conceive. Good luck to you and may God grant you much healing. It is a tough road but you are not alone.

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I have had two miscarriages and each time I cried a bit and prayed and decided to move on. I was comforted by my husband and we came to an agreement that 5 miscarriages is all I will put up with and if I have another the next time round, that we will see a specialist for advice. I don’t like the thought of IVF for myself. I don’t have the issue of getting pregnant, my issue is the baby sticking and staying. It is hard to go through but the body is complex. All the best!

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Im so sorry for your loss. I understand how you feel. Honestly, you have to take it one day at a time. Healing takes alot of time. What you went through is heartbreaking so you canmot expect to be okay from one day to another. You must cry it out for as long as you need to. For two whole weeks after my loss I couldnt control my emotions. I just cried and cried and had absolutely no control. Eventually I began to hold back the tears. I also became aware of what would trigger my emotions.. pregnant women, babies, baby section at Target..those things I stayed away from. Eventually, I was able to see those thibgs and not break down. It hasnt been a ayear yet and I was able to go to a babyshower and not cry. But I will tell you this.. you will NEVER stop thinking about it. You will always remember.

I miscarried how do I move on from this ?

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