The way you speak to your husband

Forgive me if this doesn’t make sense lol I was speaking to my husband today and I caught myself, I realized the way I was talking to him ( I had an attitude) was awful and if Other people heard me talking to him like that i would be embarrassed. So I’m definitely going to be more aware of how I talk when I am mad/frustrated. I guess I’m just wondering if anyone else feels this way? Of course everyone has their moments but i really want to be more aware cause it’s not right